The Best Sex Toys For Lesbians, According to a Lesbian

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While exciting to think about, the sheer volume of sex toys — vibrators, dildos, oral sex toys, clit suckers, strap-on toys, and so many more — is undeniably overwhelming to sift through, even more so when you're not entirely sure what you're looking for. This feeling was only amplified when I first started to explore my sexuality as a lesbian, torn between questionable designs I was told I should like and the sex toys that actually made me feel good. The truth is, the perfect sex toy is as personal as a fingerprint, and the best sex toys for lesbians will, ultimately, depend on from where and how someone derives the most pleasure.

For example, do you crave clitoral stimulation, or do your craziest orgasms come from G-spot stimulation? Are you more interested in anal play than anything else? What about nipple play? Ahead, you'll find a wealth of the best sex toys for lesbians, curated by a lesbian, that mostly veer away from heavily phallic designs and deliver targeted pleasure to multiple body parts and erogenous zones. You can use these during sex with a partner or play with these sex toys solo. All that matters is that you pick the sex toy that feels best to you and lets you orgasm your way.

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Unbound Puff ($48)

It's cute, compact, and colorful — what's not to love about this lesbian sex toy? In all seriousness, the Puff packs a serious punch, and the 2,000-plus positive reviews are proof. It's designed to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand, it's made of body-safe silicone, and it's totally fine to use in the shower or bath. The head delivers powerful outer stimulation to your clitoris — or anywhere else you'd like targeted sensation — at varying speeds and patterns so you can orgasm your way. After a few hours of play, simply recharge for about an hour and keep play time going.

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Lelo Soraya Wave Luxurious Rabbit Massager ($207, originally $259)

After I got my first big-girl job and had a little more disposable income saved up, I bought a Lelo Soraya vibrator. In the years since, I've played around with myriad sex toys, but I've always returned to my trusty Soraya. This lesbian sex toy is a new iteration of this design, and while it's certainly an investment, you'll get your money's worth. The sleek silicone is complemented by metallic elements that scream luxury, and the design of both heads on the toy is sure to take you straight to orgasm extremely quickly with internal and external stimulation. The flexible external arm vibrates intensely as it moves with you, while the internal head, according to Lelo, "surges in a come-hither motion" to hit your G-spot.

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Lelo Sila Sonic Clitoral Massager ($169)

On paper, the Sila sounds like the perfect lesbian sex toy. It's designed with a wide "mouth" to ensure maximum clitoral stimulation. It boasts eight different pulse settings that allow you to customize your experience with your preferred intensity. It's made with high-quality silicone to keep you coming over time. And according to the many glowing reviews, it's great to use in the tub. The one thing that sets this gorgeous sex toy apart from others, in my opinion, is the fact that, if it were sitting on display at Anthropologie with no indication it's a sex toy, I'd think it was a quirky piece of home decor and buy it in a heartbeat, no questions asked.

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Dame Eva Couples Vibrator ($140)

This lesbian sex toy is a hands-free innovation that delivers intense pleasure while leaving your hands free for . . . other things. The flexible wings feature enough tension to tuck right under your labia and stay put, while the body rests against your clitoris and vaginal opening, delivering irresistible vibrations at three different speeds. Use it during sex with someone else for added stimulation, or use it on your own without having to worry about your hands getting tired.

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Finger Pro by Bellesa ($69)

You can always trust your finger to get the job done, but why not kick things up a notch? This lesbian sex toy features a simple finger strap and a small head designed to mimic the sensations of a tongue during oral sex. The head is interestingly designed, surrounded by an oval of silicone rods, which might sound a bit scary but are just meant to add even more sensation to your orgasm. Overall, this toy is quiet, rechargeable, and easily portable for pleasure wherever you are.

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Dame Com Wand Vibrator ($89)

You can never go wrong with a trusty wand massager, but for a long time, these types of sex toys weren't exactly ergonomically friendly. They were big, bulky, and attached to a wire that made where you get off an unnecessary complication. But this lesbian sex toy is one massager that's improved on some of these shortcomings, with a rechargeable design, a flexible head, and a curved shape that requires much less arm gymnastics or hand cramps. Made of medical-grade silicone, the Com also features five different vibrating patterns, as well as five intensity levels, so you can find what makes you feel your best.

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Blush Avant D15 Vision of Love Silicone Suction Cup Dildo ($47)

This lesbian sex toy is ideal for beginners and sex-toy aficionados alike. The dildo is made from high-quality, nonporous silicone to ensure safety and durability, and it's perfectly compatible with a host of strap-on harnesses, should you want to go that route. If not, you have plenty of options of how and where to use this dildo, including sticking its suction-cup end to the floor, your shower wall, or virtually anything that's smooth, clean, and hard. It's hard enough to make penetration easy but flexible enough to keep things fun and comfortable.

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SpareParts Tomboi Modal Harness Black ($102)

There are tons of strap-on harnesses out there, but the simplest, IMHO, are ones like this lesbian sex toy. This harness is designed to look and be worn like your average pair of underwear and is available in sizes XS to 3X. The briefs are made of extremely comfortable, water-friendly spandex, and they're made with a simple O-ring design that seamlessly works with a variety of dildos, vibrators, and other toys. Even better, the briefs feature small bullet-vibe pockets to add a layer of fun for the wearer. No confusing straps. Nothing getting in the way. Just pleasure.

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Vedo Bump Anal Vibe ($46)

For anyone interested in anal play, might I introduce you to this amazing lesbian sex toy. This anal plug and vibrator, which is safe to use in the water, boasts a comfortable shaft and comes with a remote, allowing you (or a partner) to choose from 10 different vibration modes.

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Enby Heart Padlock Nipple Clamps ($25)

Lest we forget about the nipples, these clamps are an incredibly fun toy to add in during sex, whether you're playing with a partner or going at it solo. This lesbian sex toy, in particular, could not be easier to use. The coated tips will keep things comfortable, and you can adjust the pressure of the clamps with the screws on either side.

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We-Vibe Sync Chorus ($159)

Complete with a squeeze-sensitive remote control, this lesbian couples' sex toy is meant to deliver double the pleasure, designed to internally stimulate the G-spot while externally stimulating the clitoris. With 10 vibration variations total — three intensity levels and seven patterns — the toy is also designed to respond to your body specifically, ramping up vibrations as you clench and move with it. Even more, couples can use the We-Vibe We-Connect app with the Chorus, allowing your partner to control the toy and vice versa. Between the remote, the vibration settings, and the app, the ways you can orgasm with the Chorus are endless.

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Nipple Play Rechargeable Nipplettes ($65)

Regular nipple clamps are good, but vibrating nipple clamps are better. These nipplettes feature a compact body with a comfortable, adjustable nipple clamp made from smooth silicone. These rechargeable toys will deliver 12 different vibration sensations straight to one of the most sensitive parts of your body for 45 minutes of play.